What I don't understand is a) what you think you're missing, and b) how finding it will help you. (Maybe that's what you don't understand either!) ;)

I am the least girly girl that I know. Okay, I know a lot about shoes and next to nothing about cars (I know how to replace a broken fan belt with a stocking, but I learnt that in the Guides!), but I've never plucked my eyebrows, I've never had a manicure, I've never had wax applied to any part of my body (okay, not in a hair-removal sense), I never wear make-up, and all my shoes are flat. I only wear a bra when I have to leave the house and I think someone might notice (which I appreciate is a luxury), and despite making skirts and dresses, I only ever wear trousers and t-shirts.

I would consider you to be way more girly than me, but I suspect the crux of the matter is that I don't think I can explain why.